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6 Tips for Room Sharing

Room sharing can be a daunting task, especially for toddlers and babies. My goal is to help prepare you for when your children share a room OR give you some ideas to implement if you have already made the transition.

It’s important to remember that with any transition or change in our children’s lives, there may be a period where life feels tough, and that’s ok! Allow your children time to figure out each other’s sleep patterns and noises so they can learn to become great at sleeping together.

In this blog post, I will cover:

  • Sleep rules, expectations & preparation

  • The importance of darkness

  • Why independent sleep skills are helpful

  • Staggered bedtimes and preparing

  • Why room dividers are useful

  • Placement and decibel test of your white noise machine

Sleep Rules, Expectations & Preparation

Having a family meeting with your children (if age-appropriate) PRIOR to making the transition can be helpful. Create a few simple sleep rules to follow each night, and always have them verbalize the rules before going to bed. Examples of sleep rules are: “I will close my eyes,” “I will stay in bed,” and “I will lay quietly.” Having these rules written out on paper and displayed on the wall (or bathroom mirror) can be helpful to help remind and reinforce your expectations for the night. Next, it can be helpful to spend time preparing the space where your children will sleep. Look at the room and think through all the scenarios, i.e. What happens if a child is sick? Will my child be napping in the room? Will my toddler be having a quiet time? Will the kids be going to bed at the same time? Is the room safe for my toddler? Take the time to address these questions and scenarios.


Darkness is something I recommend for all sleep spaces, especially if a child is currently struggling with their sleep (i.e., night wakes or short naps). Prior to moving children together, it’s important to take note of whether one child uses a night light and how that may impact your other child’s sleep. Using a red night light will have the least impact on sleep and would be a great option if you have a toddler and baby sharing. You may also choose to purchase a SlumberPod and set it up over a playpen until your baby is ready to sleep with a night light. Lastly, you could position the crib and nightlight in a way that the light is out of view for your baby. Play around with the room setup and different blackout solutions to find the best fit for your children.

Solid Sleep Skills

Before moving your children together, it can be extremely helpful to make sure they have solid sleep skills. When I refer to solid sleep skills, I am talking about the ability to fall asleep on their own so that when they wake in the night (i.e., sibling going the bathroom), they are confident in how to put themselves back to sleep. Please know that it is NOT necessary for a baby to be sleeping through the night before room sharing. However, knowing that your baby has the skills to fall back asleep after a quick feeding in the night will make the transition much smoother for both you and your children.

Prep for Bedtime

Depending on the age of your children, you may need a staggered bedtime. A 3.5-year-old who has recently dropped their nap may need an earlier bedtime, compared to a 2-year-old taking a daily afternoon snooze. Another scenario could be a 5-month-old taking three daily naps, which pushes bedtime closer to 7:45/8 pm, sharing with a toddler going to bed at 7 pm. If you find your children require different bedtimes, make sure to grab ALL the items needed for the bedtime routine out of the room (i.e. sleep sack, diaper, books, pyjamas) for the child with the later bedtime.

Room Divider

Dividing the room in half can provide a feeling of ownership of their sleep space, especially for older children. It may also help minimize the bedtime chit-chat that can happen late into the night. You could put a curtain through the room, a bookshelf (i.e. IKEA Kallax unit), or go as far as putting a track system in. We have used the SlumberPod as a room divider and it works extremely well. You can check out SlumberPod here. I also offer SlumberPod rentals if you are local to Winnipeg, MB. Head over to my "rental page" under the resource tab to learn more about the rental process. If you are interested in purchasing one, you can use my discount code YOURSLEEPSTORY to take 5% off your purchase! Whichever option you choose, they all serve the same purpose!

White Noise Machine

I HIGHLY recommend implementing at least one white noise machine. Depending on the age of your children, you could use one machine per child. The main purpose of white noise is to create a buffer between external noise and your sleeping child. The white noise is also a consistent cue that it’s time for sleep. When choosing the placement of your white noise machine, ensure that it is placed between your child and the potential noise (i.e. place the machine between your children or between your child and the door). Once you have the placement of your white noise machine, download a FREE app that allows you to check the decibel output. Ensure the machine is no louder than 50-65dB to prevent hearing damage. Lastly, check to make sure the white noise machine plays deep and consistent white noise (i.e. no raindrops, birds chirping, or timers!).

If you need extra support, email me at to book a 30-minute support call. All the best as you prepare for the transition!


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